I’m Nonso Ogbonna, though close friends call me Big Bruv. I was born and raised in Kaduna, in the northern part of Nigeria. I moved to Washington DC in 2003 to attend Howard University. I straddle the areas of engineering and finance… with a bachelor’s degree in Electrical Engineering from Howard, and an MBA degree in Finance and Technology Management from the Stern Business School at NYU. Currently, I get by as a digital solutions architect in the financial services industry.
Back in 2018, I was moving between houses and so decided to experience living in Brooklyn for a few months. It was on one of those evenings exploring the neighborhood that I ran into Hariyat again. I’m pretty good with faces (but not so good with names) , and so I clearly remembered our first interaction from years ago. She was still the same warm, and welcoming, and funny girl that I recalled meeting, and we reconnected effortlessly. We agreed to meet-up more often, now that we were neighbors. The fact that we lived a few minutes from each other helped build our relationship early on, and we committed to giving each other a chance even after I moved out of Brooklyn.
Fast forward to last year… with the COVID-19 pandemic, being locked down in the same apartment for months on end afforded us the opportunity to learn and appreciate a whole lot more about each other, and how compatible we were. And so towards the end of the summer, I asked her to be my wife.